1st-urself,
2nd-1 u love most,
3rd-1 who love u most,
4th-1 you spend the rest of your life with.
firstly u'll meet the 1 u love most, and learn how love
feels.
Because u know how love feels, so u can find the person
who loves u most.
When u've experienced the feeling of loving others and being
loved, u'll then know what
it is u need most. Then u will find the person who is most
suitable for u, to be able to spend the rest of your life
with.
Sadly,in real life,these 3 people are usually not the same
person.
The one u love most doesn't love you. The one,who love u
most,is never the one u love most. And the one u spend your
life with,is never the one u love most or the one who love
u most.
He/she is just the person who happens to be at the right
place at the right time.
Which person are u in other people's life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when he loves u, he/she really loves
u.
But when he/she doesn't love u anymore, he/she really doesn't
love u anymore.
When he/she loves u, he/she can't pretend that he/she doesn't.
same goes, when he/she loves u no more, there's no way he/she
can pretend he/she loves u. When a person doesn't love u
and wants to leave u. u must ask yourself if u still love
him/her, If u also don't love him/her anymore, do not keep
him/her just to save your pride. If you still love him/her,
you should wish him/her happiness, and hope that he/she
will be with the one he/she loves most, not stop him/her
from it. If you stop him/her from finding true happiness
with the one he/she loves, it shows u already don't love
him/her, And if you don't love him/her, what rights do you
have to blame him/her for a change of heart?
Love is not possessive, if you like the moon, you can't
just take it down and put it in your basin, But the moonlight
still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person,
you can use another method of possessing the person. Let
him/her become a permanent memory in you life. If you really
love a person, you must love him/her for what he/she is.
Love him/her for his/her good points, and the bad, You can't
wish for him/her to become like what you like him/her to
be just because you love him/her. If he/she can't change
to become what you like him/her to be, you don't love him/her
anymore. When you really love a person, you cannot find
a reason why you love him/her, You only know that no matter
when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish to
have this person be with you.
Real love is when two people can go through the toughest
problems without asking for promises or listing criteria.
In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give in
at times, not always be on the receiving end. Being away
from each other is a type of test, If the relationship isn't
strong, then you can only admit defeat. Real love will never
become hate.
When two people are in love, They love to ask each other
to swear, to make promises. Why do they ask each other to
swear and promise? Because they don't trust each other,
they don't trust their lover. These swear and promises are
useless; Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love
for u will never change! We all know that the sky will never
fall; the ocean will never dry, Even if it does happen,
are we still alive by then? Be careful when making promises;
don't make promises that you cannot keep. Swear by things
that can never happen, because it can never happen, so no
harm just saying it casually. Rmember? Swearing by things
that can never happen are the most touching!!?
In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you
do is another;
The 1 saying, doesn't believe; the 1 listening, also doesn't
believe.
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