Dating Tips for Shy
Guys
Conversation - what to say and take note
Its always important to say the right things and things
that will impress. Its also tremendously important not to
say stupid things which may offend your date. You also do
not want to bore your date by talking about things she totally
cannot relate to. These are some things that you can mention
or should take note while striking a conversation.
1. Be open minded
Do not show extremism towards subjects that your date talks about.
It might just be something that she cares a lot about. Do not
make any crude remarks on anything she says for the same reason.
You do not want to leave a bad impression so fast.
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2. Talk about common topics
Its a very common tip but its one of the most difficult
to master. Man will naturally like to talk about themselves
and their interests. However, there's no harm in talking
about something in which your date has a huge passion for
and you find it boring. There is also no harm talking about
hot topics that she might be interested in. If you really
are clueless about what to talk to her about, do some research
beforehand on what to say. Her friends and appearance are
good resources to start from.
3. Compliment and talk about her dressing
As mentioned in Lesson #1, women take great care of their dressing
and man should therefore take notice of what women wear and compliment
them. However, compliment her casually as you do not want her
to think that you're totally captivated by her. You can follow
up on her dressing by asking where she bought it and how much
it cost. It helps her to feel important.
4. Joke
The sure way to succeed is always humor as women relates witty
guys to not boring. No women likes boring guys no matter how good
the impression he makes. Jokes can liven the atmosphere and creates
a good impression for you.
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5. Don't talk about sports, politics or other male gender
dominated topics unless she is interested in them too
Men love their sports. Sports competitiveness brings out
the excitement and happiness of men. However, most women
know nuts about sports. Its no use telling your date about
Michael Jordon's glorious history when she is more interested
in the cute boyish basketballer on the court. Therefore,
unless you want to talk about how cute that basketballer
is, steer clear of sports. The same rule applies for other
male gender dominated topics.
6. Lastly, Listen
Its no coincidence that women talks much more then
men per day. Women love to talk and let their opinions
be known. Therefore, its important to listen and appreciate
what she says instead of talking all the time. It
makes your date feels important.
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